The companionship and role models of parents are very important. A child's first teacher actually comes from their parents and family, so family education plays a crucial role in a person's growth process. But after all, not all parents have received higher education. I once read an article that mentioned that in today's China, only 3% of people have received undergraduate education. As parents, the most important and simplest thing for us is to lead by example and put our actions into practice. This is what I often tell my friends about the subtle and silent family education, and it is also a subtle and intangible education.

The education that many people understand is actually a narrow sense of education, such as kindergarten teachers teaching children pinyin, mathematics, and singing hand in hand in kindergarten; Primary and secondary school teachers teach Chinese, mathematics, and other subjects to students at school; University teachers give lectures to college students, which is a very visible form of education.

But when we educate our children on how to be a good person, how to cultivate their courage, sense of responsibility, and other qualities, how should we as parents educate them? Many truths are actually detached from reality. For children, it is important to avoid the vastness of space. Only when parents lead by example can children truly understand or be influenced. In fact, the true educational process begins with a person's birth and lasts for a lifetime, causing lasting and profound changes to the person. This is what we often refer to as broad education, which comes from various aspects such as family, school, and society. Dewey in the United States once said that education is life.

Children in their childhood have a strong ability to imitate, and they may replicate every word and action of their parents in front of them. Therefore, sometimes when you see a child's behavior that needs to be corrected, you first reflect on yourself. Have you ever had similar words and actions in a certain situation or at a certain time? I remember when my daughter was only a little over a year old, I once saw her sitting on the sofa, lifting one leg and resting it on the other, practicing repeatedly several times. I suddenly realized that this must be because she had seen someone cross her legs in her family in daily life, and she was learning to cross her legs. From then on, I paid special attention to my words and actions. Whether in life or work, I never said anything rude. Therefore, from birth until now, I have never heard my daughter say a vulgar word.

Mr. Nie Shengzhe once said: Excellence is taught, and family education is particularly important. In fact, family education is the foundation for a person's future social standing. In terms of the total amount of education in life, the importance of family education accounts for 80% of the proportion. Family education is not that complicated, it's just labor education. Two things, doing housework and learning to endure hardship, start with providing for oneself and education.

The ones who can truly have a direct impact on children are their parents. Especially the mother, because from the moment he moved into your uterus, you have been breathing with him until birth, every moment with the child. After birth, the mother is also the person who accompanies the baby the most, and her words and actions directly become the object of imitation for the child. Therefore, if parents' words and actions are appropriate, then your child will be the most direct beneficiary.

Parents are the first good teachers and friends in a child's life, as well as the closest people to the child. I have seen many very responsible mothers who work really hard, taking care of their children's daily life, tutoring their homework, and even taking notes for them. It can be said that they are involved in every detail and directly participate in their children's growth. Some parents, in order to prevent their children from taking detours, tell them what not to do and what to do. Throughout the entire process of companionship, they constantly nag, point out mistakes, correct their children, and scold them. In the end, both parties are unhappy, and the children lack confidence, and the parents are also very tired.

Although children are young, they have self-esteem and their own ideas. Educating children is the duty of all parents, who play the roles of parents, teachers, and friends. Only by fully integrating the three, not ignoring the children's inner thoughts, emotions, and love for them, and building a relationship based on warmth, equality, and respect, can communication be better. To achieve these, parents need to lead by example and be role models for their children. If you ask him to read and study every day, then ask yourself, do you read every day? If you ask your child to play with their phone less, do you like holding your phone every day? If you ask your child not to lie, do you ever lie to clients or teachers on the phone in front of your child? If you ask your child not to play games, do you often go out for mahjong or other activities?

If family education is relatively complete, how can parents work together with kindergarten in the same direction and synchronize education? Firstly, we agree with the educational philosophy of the kindergarten. When there is uncertainty or confusion, we should seek help in a timely manner. One method cannot deal with all children, but a child should use a hundred methods to play a combination card with the teacher, achieve consistency in the rules and attitudes of home and kindergarten, cooperate with the requirements of the kindergarten and teachers, and jointly cultivate international liberal talents who can naturally speak English and freely travel the world.